2014년 7월 18일 금요일

Dreams, Love, Joy, Happiness

What are dreams?
What is love?
What is joy?
What is happiness?

Everyone have different answer to all these questions.

Dream...
But for me, I do have big and small dreams.
Although, my big dreams might seems tough to achieve but... I dk why, my small dreams seems even tougher to achieve.
Small things like a family trip, family dinner or even family daytrip in Singapore seems so difficult. I've never like to share abt my family, so if you do happened to know, you're someone i trust and important to me.

I know it seems silly to envy other ppl, like your friends being able to have such a close family and bonded. There are many reasons and stories of my family, I used to feel ashamed but now i just don't even bother anymore. 


Love, to me is sharing and caring or even holding on and not letting go in tough times. And even if you're not together, you will still feel happy for that person. There is not first come first serve, no right or wrong, yes or no and there is no "I think". Love, might not be towards a person, it can be towards things. & Love, is not perfect. 
(I love you)

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Joy. 
There's a saying, when you share the joy, you doubled it.
“分享的快樂是加倍的快樂,分擔的痛苦是減半的痛苦”。
When you do so, you will start to enjoy and get more joy.
I do believe in this saying and I practice it.



Happiness is...
being able to stay by each other's side. 
all the small little details remembered and done for each other.
being able to see you and look at you, knowing you're alive.
SMILE.

Sometimes, it's the small little things that counts. I must admit i'm a very sentimental person. So by remembering dates that might not seems significant, will make me feel happiness. 

This might sound silly and stupid but, knowing that you're still alive every day, that's happiness to me. Don't take life for granted, he/she might be here today but not tmr.

At the age of 21, I seems to have matured so much, getting stronger and knowing when to take a break. 

At the age of 21, I can finally admit that loving myself is beautiful.